Saturday, October 25, 2014

Texas Adventure...March through May 2014



A journal of sorts for our big trip this past spring...

March 24th, Day 1…Off we go! 
March 25th, Day 2...At the end of PA, we knew we weren't going to make it to Richmond without pushing too hard, so we decided to find a place to park and sleep for the night. We stopped at the Flying J in Winchester, VA (just barely over the border from W. Virginia), at about 10:30 PM. There weren't any parking spots for RVs that we could get into, but we just pulled into a non-spot next to someone else and conked out.
The camper battery can run the heat for a while. Or until 4 am. Whichever comes first. Fortunately, it beeps like crazy when it is running low, so we knew it was dying before it got really cold. Headed back out on the road at 5 am, by the time we all got awake and got fuel in the truck ($3.99/gal compared to our $4.55/gal in NY!). Arrived at our friend's at about 8:30 am, had a good day of relaxing and playing...and we're all ready for bed now.
March 27th, Day 4…Virginia Science Museum!  Our friends have a membership and had guest passes.  The lady at the desk let the kids in for free and then I filled out a survey and got more guest passes to leave with our friends!  Nothing like a free field trip!
March 28th, Day 5… We need to be heading south faster.  It’s quite cold (and rainy) still here in North Carolina.   List for tomorrow at the store includes silverware. I brought one fork. That's it. I thought we had a whole bag of plastic silverware and did intend to pick up some cheapo stuff at Walmart when we make it to one.  Brian and I shared the one fork and the kids slurped their mac and cheese without complaint.
March 29th, Day 6…After getting 'home' from the very wet Asheboro zoo, Levi got absolutely soaked in a mud puddle (sorry, no pictures). I asked him, “What on earth were you thinking? Now your coat is all wet!” Levi says, “Mom. It’s a Rain. Coat. Raaaaiiiiiin. Cooooooaaaaaaaat.” Ha.  Also, Essie’s training wheel broke on her bike, so Brian took it off. And Hannah taught her to ride super quickly!
March 30th, Day 7…Thank you, Blacksburg, South Carolina, for a lovely McDonald's with Playplace. Lunch, stretching of legs for little people, submitting of homework for me...  It's a lovely day for a drive! Blue skies, a bit too windy (but we are careful, Mom)...
April 2nd, Day 10…Georgia Aquarium with a bunch of friends!  Totally awesome, exhausting day…and probably a once in a lifetime experience because it was pretty pricy!  Worth it, though, and I’m glad we went!  Sooo very glad we bought a wheelchair for Brian, so we don’t have to worry about renting one or feel like we’re taking one from some little old lady.  It’s much easier for us all to have fun when we’re not worried about how bad Daddy is hurting.
April 3rd, Day 11…We arrived at Oak Mountain State Park and our friend brought out a fantastic feast for dinner!
April 4th, Day 12…Monsoon has caused us to cancel our plans for the Birmingham Zoo.  Our friend suggested the McWane Science Museum instead, and it was a great day anyway!  Scary parking garage with a truck so wide and long as ours, but we did make it out.  There are many uses for labor breathing…
Dinner at our friend’s house…the yummiest chicken chili ever!  My kids were wild beyond reason though, and this particular friend doesn’t have any kids, so…well, I hope she still likes me. :D
April 5th, Day 13…On our way to Corinth, MS!  The campground we booked is interesting.   There is no one in charge…you pay on the honor system using an envelope and a lockbox.  Was a nice peaceful place, though, and we’d stay there again!
April 6th, Day 14…Church with Ilyssa (Gramma Becca had to work).  Love spending time with everyone here…and wish we never had to leave!
 I have a *lot* of big school stuff coming due. A small paper the 13th, two big hairy accounting problems the 13th and more the 20th, the 27th, and May 2nd, a large research paper the 17th, and a small research paper May 2nd.  Getting a little nervous about all this schoolwork and traveling…
April 7th, Day 15…Having trouble finding all the parts they need to fix the brake issue.  Bolts all stripped out.  But glad my boys know what they are doing, and that I put money in the trip budget for repairs.   If we have to be stuck, this is the best place…with family!  Took Ilyssa out to dinner at a Mexican restaurant she liked to go to with their dad.  Boy, it’s so hard to leave here…always many tears…
April 8th, Day 16…Finished up the truck repair and headed out.  Boondocked in a Texaco parking lot in Hattiesburg, MS, then drove through New Orleans today, crossed Lake Pontchartrain.  Land of many bridges, for sure!
April 9th, Day 17…We went to the Greenwood Gator Farm and had our own personal tour.  A little pricy, but really great people and we all learned a lot about gators!  Swamp People is filmed at this gator farm, and the kids thought that was pretty cool.
L: These mosquitoes are as big as chickens!  Hannah, can you get my big book out of the truck?
H: No. The chicken mosquitoes...
L: If you die, can I have the top bunk?
I have a feeling this will be a new family joke.  The mosquitos here are seriously nuts.  And bug spray attracts them!
April 10th, Day 18...relaxed at the campground all morning. Now hooking up and heading out...Orange, TX, here we come!  One awesome thing about camping...when you buy ice cream, it must be eaten before you move on. Kids loved their lunch!
Also, that moment when you're in Walmart and see someone you know out of the corner of you eye.  And then realize that you are 26+ hours from home and you don't know anyone here. Thankfully, before shouting out, "Oh, hey!"
April 11th, Day 19…We went to Botanical Gardens in Orange with our friends.  Wonderful day…took a tour boat ride on Adam’s Bayou.  It’s so nice when everyone in the family has a friend all at one time…and it’s like we’ve all known each other forever!
April 13th, Day 21…Church with friends (HUGE church!!).Their daughter was baptized today, which was neat! We had a picnic in the park with her family…on a very windy, but not raining (yet) day. Many tears from my girls when it was time to part ways. Goodbyes are not a fun part of this trip.  Heading out in the morning…
Brian dropped me off at McDonald's for 4 hours to get my schoolwork done.  Yay for free internet!
April 14th, Day 21…Decided we were too close to the ocean to miss it!  We didn’t stay long (about 90 minutes?) because a storm was moving in and we were hoping to make it all the way up to Dallas today, but I’m glad we made the effort!  We found an open beach on High Island, TX.  Brian told the kids not to get dirty or wet, but was quickly reminded that dirty and wet are exactly what usually happen at the beach.   Our time was short, but wonderful!  The storm chased us from behind and our leaving the beach was good timing, too!
           Pulled into a campground after hours and knew immediately this was not the campground for us. This is our longest stay and there is NOTHING for kids to do. No playground. No free grass to run and play. No water of any sort (pool is not open for season). It's packed, though we didn't see anyone outside at all and it was only 7:00 (very odd for a campground). We came in after hours, but I'm going to see what we can do in the office tomorrow...all of the other ones have been great, though. If we're stuck with this one, we'll make do, I guess...  We are within walking distance of SuperTarget.  That was a plus. J
April 15th, Day 22…We left the terrible city campground without normal camping type people.  Most expensive sleep of this trip…they kept our deposit, but did let us out of our reservation for the week.  And found the very best, family friendly campground…Wagon Master RV Park in Sanger, TX.  They didn’t actually have any spots open, but they gave us a great deal on an electric/water only site in front of the maintenance building.  They also have super internet, which will be handy since I have a paper due this week.         Fantastic views of a big, big North Texas sky…working alpaca farm, a lovely pool, great facilities, and plenty of room for the kids to ride their bikes!
April 16th, Day 23…Speaking of bikes…Esther’s just pretty  much fell apart today.  So we went and got another one.  Glad our budget has a little wiggle room…
                Hung out with friends in Dallas today.  A little disappointed that we know so many people here but it looks like we’ll only get to meet one family.   It doesn’t look like we’ll get to see Granny, either, because she lives with Brian’s aunt and uncle, who are refusing to let us see her, for some unknown reason.
April 17th, Day 24…We met two fulltime RV families today!  One is a missionary family with 6 kids (7th on the way) and the other is a claims adjuster with AllState.  So cool!
April 18th, Day 25… It was, overall, a good day. I mean, we didn't expect the Granny part to end well at this point.  The Dallas Zoo was great (except parking, but it is a holiday weekend…). The mister stations were awesome and the splash river thing came at just the right point in the day.
            I am injured. Right before we went in, I busted my knuckle hard on the truck. Yeah, black and blue and very tender. Not even sure how I managed that. Then in the zoo, Levi went off his rocker (he had gluten yesterday…ugh) and I was trying to calm him down when he bashed his head into mine so hard it moved my teeth. The bone below my eye hurts, but Brian can't see swelling.  It it feels swollen on the inside, but I don’t think anything is broken.  Eh. We’re at the halfway point of our trip. Could have been a better day.  But it could have been worse.  We went to Whattaburger for the first time ever…and hopefully not the last!  YUM!
         We are not going to see Granny at all.  Stupid family drama.  So very sad…she was the whole reason we started planning this trip. L  I wish I could explain it, but I don’t understand it at all…
April 19th, Day 26…I ventured out to the store (Target) all by myself, near a large city, driving the big honking truck.  My first trip anywhere ALONE in 26 days.  I took my sweet time and in the end, had all of the goodies I needed for Easter, including a new Crockpot to make dinner in, since I left mine at home.  It was broken and I did need a new one anyway!
April 20th, Day 27…Happy Easter!  We drove back into Dallas to go to church with our friends (and almost ran out of fuel on the way there…oops!).  After church, she gave us a package my mom and sister had mailed to her…perfect timing, as we were really missing home.  I don’t think we have ever missed a major holiday at home.  We were invited to have dinner with our friends, but decided to do our own thing at the camper instead.  I made scalloped potatoes and ham in the crockpot, fruit/pudding salad that Gramma Becca introduced us to in MS, and corn mushroom bake in the oven.  It came together pretty well, especially considering our tanks were full so we couldn’t dump anything down the drain.  After dinner, Brian occupied the kids while I hid clues for a treasure hunt.  The clues led them all over the campground, for a good workout, and ended with a basket for the whole family in the pool area.  Just as we were finishing up, the heavens let loose with a good ol’ Texas downpour.
April 21st, Day 28…Headed for my honey’s hometown!  Texarkana, TX!  We were coming in just as storms were, and Noah actually spotted some rotation in the clouds unlike anything we see at home, but not quite a tornado, either.  We’ll be parking the camper at Brian’s cousin’s house.  His cousin is the same age as his mom, so she’s more of an aunt, really.  The kids will call her Aunt Cris.
April 22nd, Day 29… We went absolutely NOWHERE today. Lovely! Met Brian's Aunt Laura.  Cris and I stayed up late and chatted. She's good people and I'm glad to finally meet her and her family!
April 23rd, Day 30… Today, Cris took the girls and I to Hobby Lobby (scrapbooking supplies for the girls to do with Aunt Cris), Walmart, and Salvation Army (more books for Levi!). We also met Brian's cousin, Billy and his son, Trey. I am told Billy behaved better than he usually does. Hearing all kinds of stories...but what happens in Texas, stays in Texas, right?
It's hot as summer in NY here.   Will be hard to leave in a couple days.  Hate leaving family, even family we just met!
April 24th, Day 31…Met Brian’s cousin LaDonna, and her husband and kids.  Wish we lived closer…the kids had so much fun together! <3 p="">
April 25th, Day 32…Heading toward a tiny town near Bentonville, AR (aka Walmart headquarters).  Beautiful drive through Oauchita National Park.  Arrived at my friend’s house to find it the perfect place for kids to run wild and free.  Everyone got good and filthy!
April 26th, Day 33…Went to the March of Dimes walk in Little Rock, AR.  My friend we are visiting had two preemies (28 weeks and 25 weeks), and then a third baby who went full term!  Celebrating life…and remembering those who didn’t make it.  Afterward, we went to the Little Rock Zoo.  Hot as blazes today…and I got pretty red and toasty!
April 27th, Day 34…Tornado day.  We went to church with our friends, knowing big storms were moving in, and move in they did…shortly after we got home from church.  Thankfully, our friends are super experienced with this kind of thing, and the dad/husband is a trained first responder and search and rescue volunteer.  We put the kids down to bed inside and watched the waves of storms roll through.  We didn’t get hit, but Mayflower, AR did…only about 1.5 hours away.
                Got terrible news in email today.  A friend at home has lost their first baby, at birth.  So very sad…and we are so far away.  Awful, just awful.
April 28th, Day 35…What. A. Day.  We should have split this into two driving days. Oops. Ended up being 9 hours in the truck, including 2 fuel/pee stops, 1 extra pee stop/mountain overlook, and stopping for dinner.  Route 7 through Arkansas/Missouri is an AMAZING scenic route (Ozark National Park). However, signs that read "crooked and steep road for the next 53 miles". Well, they didn't lie! And about 20 feet of guardrails for that 53 miles. Momma needed a Valium. THEN...we cleared that and found cross-winds. More than a bit scary, especially on a dumb bridge. Glad Brian knows what he is doing...and that God kept us safe.  Blue skies, no tornado threat today!
This campground (Lost Valley Lake Resort, Owensville, MO) is A.Maz.Ing. Seriously. We're not going to be able to do everything in just 3 days. But we will get to meet a friend and her three kids!  We definitely need to come back to this campground when Hannah is old enough to go on a trail ride (10, with an adult along on the ride, 14 to go on your own).
May 1st, Day 38…Having a rough, emotional day. And fuel issues. We think we got bad fuel at our last stop (not a truck stop...).   Services for my friend’s baby are today, which we obviously can't be there for.  This is the very hardest part of being so far from home.  Sometimes, eyes are meant to leak, as we mourn with those who mourn... 
Finally parked in my friend’s driveway in Lebanon, IL…a nice break from campgrounds for a bit!  Celebrated good internet by writing my very last (ever!) college paper.  Kind of can’t believe I survived these 7+ weeks of school on the road!
May 4th, Day 41…Had a great few days with a friend in Lebanon, IL, just over the border/river from St. Louis, MO.  We went to the City Museum one day, which was absolutely a.maz.ing!  Best place ever!  Also went to the Arch…which I’m kind of ashamed to admit I knew nothing about history-wise before now.  The kids earned their first Jr. Ranger badges at the Museum of Westward Expansion, and I’m sure I learned more than they did.  This visit was way too short…so much to do and not nearly enough time just hanging out with our friends!
May 5th, Day 42…We encountered a boy (10ish?) and his mom at a truck stop. I don't know their names. It appeared mom had picked him up from school to take him somewhere, but she really had all their stuff packed in the back of the truck and covered up. He discovered it at the truck stop and refused to get in with her. He was on the phone with his dad and trying to tell him where they were so he could come get him. She called the police and they were in process of sorting it out while we were there.  My heart was heavy for them when we left.
            Longest, hottest travel day.  Had some fuel trouble and had to replace a little black box under the hood, thankfully warrantied because we just bought it in February.  Pulled into Little Farm on the River, Rising Sun, IN, just in time to go to bed.  We’ll be here for two days while we visit the Creation Museum in Petersburg, KY.  Kids are free this year, with adult ticket purchase, and since Noah counts as an adult for this purpose, we basically have a BOGO deal…plus all tickets are good for two full days!
May 6th, Day 43…So...the fuel issue was not fixed by the replacement of the warrantied box. Boo. There are a couple of other possibilities, but we are going to try to get home before addressing those.  A bit scary, but God continues to keep us safe!  This trip is a lesson in trusting God.  So many things are out of our control.
May 8th, Day 45…We boondocked at Cabela’s in Columbus, OH.  Had to run the generator half the night to keep the food cold, the first time we have used it on this trip.  It was a little unnerving being alone in a huge parking lot in a city, but at about midnight, another camper pulled in.  Strangers, sure, but it definitely felt safer after that.
May 9th, Day 46…Pulled into Pittsburgh KOA for their BOGO Mother’s Day weekend special!  Place is packed, as we knew it would be.  It’s a little weird to be around so many weekend campers…we have definitely passed that designation now.
May 10th, Day 47…It’s been kind of a grumpy day.  This campground is packed and it has rained off and on all day.  We did get to visit my friend and her kids near Pittsburgh, and even went to a playground despite the gloomy weather.
            We’re all tired of moving so often.  According to my trip notes, we have stayed in 19 different locations.  Time to reevaluate why we decided to do this…and came up with the following list…
             1. To see some people we haven't met yet, visit some really cool places, and have some good times with family who live too far away. Accomplished, except for Granny.
             2. To finish a trip way longer than anything we have ever done before, and see whether we still want to do a waaaay longer one. Yep. We *can* do it! It's not all fun and games, but we do like it. A lot.
             3. To learn some about what full-time RVing is like. It's different than vacation. This trip has leaned a lot more toward vacation side than I anticipated, with the things we had planned and probably a little too much go-go-go at times. Longer stays will help with this, I think, and seeing people will not be as much a focus as it has been this time around. More downtime, more routine, more schoolwork...
As far as our goals...we've done well and learned A LOT. When we roll in our driveway Wednesday (God willing), we will have done what we set out to do. I'm pretty happy with that.
May 11th, Day 48…Mother’s Day!  Noah and Hannah worked hard to make us breakfast bagels while we pretended to still be sleeping.  The girls had made beautiful cards with Aunt Cris in Texas, and Hannah had managed to squirrel away some Whoppers somehow.  Combined with some fresh wildflowers…it was a good day. J  Pulling out this afternoon to head a little closer to home!
May 12th, Day 49…We visited a longtime friend and family in middle of nowhere Western PA.  She practically has a zoo…horses, chickens, goats, dogs, guinea pigs, rabbits, and who knows what else.  The kids were in animal heaven, and I’m very sure Hannah could live there with no trouble at all. 
               Right about bedtime, there was a tornado warning, which we knew about only because it came across Brian’s phone.  However, with no internet, we had no way to track the storm.  This campground has no staff on premises overnight, and I presume no tornado siren.  Extremely unnerving, but we (obviously) made it through the night just fine. 
                When we left the Jefferson, OH campground, we found the dump station already completely full, so we got to take our “crap” with us.  Crazy, since there was really no one else camping there and it’s very early in the camping season for the Northeast.  This place has serious drainage/high water table issues…for sure we won’t come back here.  I believe this is the only campground on this trip that I wouldn’t return to, so that’s not bad!
May 13th, Day 50…Aunt Kathy’s house near Rochester, NY.  The little kids and I slept in the house.  Brian and Noah braved the hours of thunder and lightning in the camper.  Being with family feels almost like home…but tomorrow night, my own bed!!
May 14th, Day 51…heading home!  Driving my van is going to feel like driving a smart car!